Hahaha!! That just made me laugh.. Exactly my situation - H will be with me later and she can snuggle with her thorny roses! I agree that being stubborn is a good trait right now. I'm certainly NOT going to go down easy. Just having a rough day and I KNOW they are together RIGHT NOW and it hurts like crazy. I'm sure my neediness this morning just threw them right into each other's arms.
So... what would a good DB'er do?? 1 - Try not to take anything personally 2 - Don't make a fuss over the OW - it's going to fizzle out eventually 3 - Make the CHOICE to love H and don't just react to H latest actions 4 - Be positive.. NO ONE likes to be around a depressed/sobbing person! 5 - Detach - make the decision to do things in love and expect nothing in return for now 6 - Make changes permanent 7 - PRAY FOR A MIRACLE!
