Wow your post has made me so happy!! I am so pleased for you I really am. Flowers and champagne from your H that is so lovely and even more special after everything that has happened. I'm not surprised you got emotional.
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"things will be alright because that's what we both want"
That is a brilliant thing that H has said to you. It shows he wants it to work too. My H said exactly the same thing to me a couple of weeks ago and the other day I said to him I just want things to keep getting better and he said so do I that's why I came back. These things are so reassuring to hear aren't they. Store it away and say it to yourself whenever you feel uncertain.
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But the other day he actually asked me to arrange a babysitter for Sat afternoon so that we can go for luch somewhere to make up for not being around on Valentines day.
Another great sign that H really wants to be with you - he is arranging dates for you both!! I hope you have a lovely time.
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It is so amazing that this is happening that at times i do question (to myself)why he is being so nice? Is it because this IS what he really wants or is it a guilty consience? I know i shouldn't think like that, i just find it hard to believe sometimes.
I know how you feel here I keep questioning it too. I think it is because you hope and hope for it for so long but deep down however positive you are a part of you thinks it will never happen and then when it does you have to keep pinching yourself. IMO I think your H is with you because it is what he wants not because of a guilty consience. If it was just guilt he would just be there and that would be it - he wouldn't be getting you flowers and arranging dates for you both.
I'm having a good day too. I got H a valentine's card but decided I wouldn't give him it unless he did something for valentine's as I didn't want to look pushy etc. He has not mentioned valentine's day at all and he was still in bed when I got up this morning. When I went downstairs he had left a card for me in the kitchen!! So then I left mine for him to find when he got up. Only 9 weeks ago I thought I had no chance of getting a valentine's card this year!!
