Piecing Advice

[Rob1231]

Wow, SD, that was quite a post. (Makes me wonder if my own bottled up stuff is waiting to sneak up and clobber me with a 2x4 unexpectedly someday!)

I'm really sorry you're feeling down on the whole V-Day deal. You've come so far and you've done so much to help your R - you deserve a wonderful, romantic celebration of your accomplishments.

I'm glad you're not spewing this at H right now. If I were him, this would probably come across as laying some serious guilt and blame - while understandable, it would set you back a bit, and I don't think you really want that.

Have your cry and do what you need to get this poison out of your system. Then move on! I know you have the strength to do that.