I am one of those whose H is still at home. It's funny, but my H has always called me stubborn, and that is one of those personality traits that is helping me so much now. I, too, will not be the bad guy. He is having an EA, that he has supposedly given up, but I, too see the cell phone bills, and it kills me to think that while he is going to the grocery store to get me some flowers, he will go to an expensive florist to have them sent to her like last year. But, at least I will have him this evening, cause he is cooking out tonight, and we will snuggle and watch tv together, and she can snuggle with her roses, and hopefully get stuck with all the thorns. L
