I feel horribly guilty about all the $$ the accident has cost
Karen! Stop that!
It was an accident! The new car sounds fabulous-- and who knows, THIS may be the car your family needed that you never would have gotten if not for the accident. Maybe IT will save everyone's life someday.
You do not know why this happened. But it did happen for a reason. You do not have the God's Eye view of the sitch. Be humble and accept reality, trusting that it is okay.
Hmmm... I didn't realize you had that much martyr in you... you do cause a lot of your own suffering with the internal self-talk... what does that voice want from you? (Is that question too introspective?)
