I agree.. It is sooo hard to keep your cool and not focus on the A when they are playing both sides. Especially, when they are living at home. There are good days and bad days and Valentine Day is a crappy day when you're S is having an A. I got a nice ILU card and flowers and I'm sure the OW is getting the same. In fact, I found the card she will be getting today and it certainly portrayed how much he loved her. To say the least, I crashed and burned this morning and forgot every DB technique out there!! Just cried and cried...
It's hard to take when you can't believe anything your H says or does.. He says he needs to end the A but then their texts make it clear that he is just going through the motions and that they are planning to be together. I can't help but wonder why they don't just do it???
