Thank all you for checking on me, well the SH#$ has hit the fan and it is not pretty at the moment. STBX seems to think that pressuring the kids is going to help move them along.
Sorry to hear this, bear. Fill us in when you get the chance. MLCers are just the tiniest bit selfish this way, so I can't say this is sounding like a surprise.
Still waiting to see how all this settles in our current situation. It is still amazing and yet so sad that they can hide so deep in their illusions no matter how bad it gets. I unfortunately feel it will become worse before any improvements. My main concern is doing what is best for the kids and myself right now.
I know you are going through a rough spell, but still, I wanted to say happy valentine's day (((bear))). I saw your wishes on Lissie's thread, and they were just wonderful.