Thanks Root - I am hoping these sessions will only be $130 each but H will be going once a week and together we will be going once a week so $260 a week - worse than my mortgage payments. Being H was in an accident though, we are hoping to recoup the money for the sessions through insurance (if post traumatic is proven, which I am sure it is that because he changed almost instantly). I don't want to give the man excuse, I well know he already has enough of those in his pocket, but the A happened after the accident too, along with depression.
And yes, from what I have read online, CBT does need "homework" so I am hoping H is going to cooperate in that department too because there isn't much point in going and expecting it all to be done in the C office.
Also, I have heard that the C can be quite assertive with the client, asking questions and pushing them to deal with the emotions - something H DOES NOT like at all!!! That in itself should be interesting. I would love to be a fly on the wall
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)