Journey, you are good. Yes, we were seeing a female MC who happened to be a lesbian. After a year and a half, and no real progress, we each went to separate counselors (in the same practice). Hers, a female. Mine, male.
She stopped going to hers at the end of last year, when the C quit practicing and moved away (no, this didn't have anything to do with Ms.Hdog).
BTW, my C says I'm doing well, right on track.
And fearless - the "happiness" questions are not something I intend to answer. I think I was just telling LFL what answers W wanted to hear from me, given past discussions.
Gotta go. Thanks for all the words of wisdom everyone.