Good posts Fearless. But before we spend too long picking apart exactly what HD wants and why he wants it I just want to offer him my hearty congratulations. He has really taken a step forward with this last interaction with Mrs HD.

All he has calmly said is "I want what I want - now what are you going to do about it?" and she is left stuck with asking him a lame question like "why do you want it?". The only answer to that is "because I do".

Your questions about finding out for yourself why you want what you want are valid. I worked out about 2 months ago why I wanted sex from my H. And now I don't anymore ;-)

Maybe that's not the result hairdog's looking for ;-)

Fran


if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong