I agree that they (the adulterers) do not really look in at themselves..I think they avoid seeing what they have done and the pain they have caused..afterall having an affair as a way to exit a marriage is a way of running.. and they keep on running. My H is so angry and bitter towards me you would think that I was the one who had the affair....it is very bizarre. Currently he is on a bid to have his gf accepted by the family.. his mom refuses to even meet her and it is really pissing him off. So now he is throwing the gf in my face all the time... you know is it too much to ask...move on with your life. but leave me out of it? Don't shove the existence of your Gf and her participation in your life in my face.. I do not want to see her...it hurts to have that constant reminder.. so just leave her at home...! I know that he is having a hard time.. no one really approves of his gf for him...but all of their disapproval is making him cling even more to her... kind of like a kid huh? reversal psychology? oh well he is regressing and I have to grow up and be the adult!
