Jazz..I don't think anyone is coming down on you for mentioning your spouse...if you read around you will see that they are mentioned everywhere.
As for the severity of the situation...they are all severe and life changing. Our paths are not determined by the destination but the roads we travel to get there.
I just wanted you to focus on how you can make your life better. There is nothing you can do for her but better yourself...GALing and having a PMA are what we can do. They are reacting to EVERYTHING out there and you are letting her reactions determine your actions. Be proactive with your life instead of reactive to her.
