Matilda, Work sounds rough at the moment. I'm glad to hear it's temporary.
I think the boating class is a step in the right direction. I'm for you doing anything recreational. Keep your expectations low regarding how your H responds to your new activity. Something positive will come from this experience.
I think you're also wise to have low expectations regarding Valentine's Day. The way you're approaching it sounds good to me--light, humorous, but still acknowledging it.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
