Sorry, but the "correct" answer she wants to hear is "you are right. I am grasping for happiness by seeking something from you. I need to seek my Buddha nature and meditate. Only when I stop seeking, will I find true happiness."
Sorry folks, but I've been playing this game too long. I know all the answers. It's like playing Trivial Pursuit with two people who have already looked at all the cards.
Channeling Cobra here, I'm saying that my focusing on the sex, and putting it in front of her every day, is going to push her into the crucible.
Or not.
And Burg's got it, btw. This is not about "making" me "happy." It's not about "making" her do anything. It's not even really about "making" at all. It's about letting her know one of my "wants." A "want" that I've been consistent about. A "want" that I put on the back burner for awhile, to see if it would, as she consistently said, "take care of itself." It didn't.