To review: As she began to get sick with an episode of bipolar disorder, W told OM in early December that she didn't think their relationship was going to work out. They continued to speak until December 12, when W told him that she didn't think that God wanted them to be together. W was "committed" to a reconciliation with me while she was sick, but called him on Christmas Eve -- and they ultimately decided to "get back together" around the New Year. That only lasted a week, supposedly because OM was "devastated" that W and I had ML and "cheated" on him.
W couldn't understand how someone who literally called or texted her 10-15 times a day could now days at a time without calling her, so she believed that it had to be another woman, which OM vehemently denied, saying that her lack of trust in him was a major reason that he wasn't really ready to try again.
Yesterday morning she found his (actually their) MySpace page, with OM cuddling with "Alison" and saying how great life is when you have a true sweetheart. She called OM and he continued to deny everything. He even tried to claim that she was only a "family friend"! He eventually admitted that he had denied his R with Alison to "protect her feelings." W called him most every name in the book, and OM ended the day by texting W that he doesn't want to talk to her anymore.
W is angry and upset with herself for being so stupid as to believe that OM could change, etc., but she is also very relieved to be done with him and to know who he really is. She's grateful that she never got pregnant, she's grateful that God showed her OM's character, and she's grateful that I've stuck around and can talk with her about these things.
I'm very grateful for this as well. W had previously come to the conclusion that her R with OM was over and that was probably a good thing, but she still loved him. She doesn't anymore.
