RE-READ Smurf's last paragraph. Commit it to memory. Until SHE wants to come back make NO demands. Even then they are not demands but conditions. You will push her away with demands prior to her wanting to come back, and you will only justify her actions with them.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
