hd, read burgbud's long post-- very interesting, esp this part
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MrsHD comes to mind. She insists on being Other (and sure enough, he desires her) and she tends to objectify HD as the male oppressor. (And so, HD, I see this talk you're wanting to have not as an ultimatum or a singular point around which your M will pivot, but more as the start of you demonstrating to her that you're not the object she has in mind for you to be, you're Other...what she does with that will be interesting.)
