Hey GGB (and hi to you Dave)
This whole "I was feeling closer to you and felt like making love" thing that she said this morning was a familiar old saw of hers. It follows the "it's within your control" statement. "Look how close you were to getting what you want. But then you had to go and screw it up."

It's not working on me anymore. Whether or not I tell her every little thing that goes on in my day, or whether or not I spend x hours cleaning a week, or whether or not I make her the right kind of cake, or whether or not I remember everything she tells me to do every single day, well, I still deserve her love, her respect, and to have my wants taken seriously.

And I think she will flail around some more as the days go by, and I will let her flail. Pretty soon, she's got to realize that it's time for the next phase of this marriage.

Hairdog