Hey, I can't believe you are talking about this Muddle - that's exactly when H and I talked about with the C yesterday. C confronted H about avoiding confrontation by changing the subject, deflecting it onto something else, anything to avoid having to deal with the emotion/feelings whatever. Of course, H didn't like the idea that he was being questioned (one of his real pet peeves) but at least I got some validation that I am not an idiot and am justified in thinking like I have been - i.e. I am NOT responsible for his feelings, and I do deserve to have some answers, regardless of whether or not it makes him feel uncomfortable.

As for asking where Payless was - I can't believe she would get so upset about such a little thing. So what? You didn't know where Payless was, big friggin deal!

That's my 2 cents worth

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)