Hairy,
Good job. Might help to add an "I'm no longer willing to live in a sexless marriage, and I'd prefer it to be with you. Whether or not is is with you is within your control. " next time it comes up. Oh, and make sure it keeps coming up as reliably as mornin' wood; don't let this fade to the background again. I feel for you man, she's a tough case. Have you asked her why she seems to dislike sex so much? Seems she is holding it back as a treat for extraordinarily good deeds on your part or something. I bet the crack of Dawn is starting to look really good to you