Hi Jen Jam that is an excellent idea!! H seems to have come up with his own idea on it and I'm not sure whether it is good or bad - perhaps that can be the first question you could try to help with!?
Last night H said I had 5 seconds to ask a question I want answering about us/R/M - he was very smiley and jokey when he said it and pulled me onto his knee to say it. I asked if I could have longer than 5 seconds to think and he said no and started counting so I blurted out "why don't you want to ML?" He then said OK now my part of the deal is to give you an answer to that question in 48 hours and your part of the deal is to not ask any more questions or talk about things until then. So of course I have agreed. This morning I said that he didn't have to think of an answer it was OK. He said he was going to do his best to because it did need answering. OK so here's where I'm worrying and maybe someone else may see it differently on here. What if him thinking of the answer to that question makes him realise he doesn't want to be here?? What if I don't like the answer?? I wish I hadn't asked it now but he put me on the spot and I suppose really it is the only question left to answer because everything else seems OK.
OK so here's where I'm worrying and maybe someone else may see it differently on here. What if him thinking of the answer to that question makes him realise he doesn't want to be here?? What if I don't like the answer?? I wish I hadn't asked it now but he put me on the spot and I suppose really it is the only question left to answer because everything else seems OK. 
