I hope I'm not being mean here. I just know how it can be sometimes. My W can be immature and blow up over some stupid little comment. She has an anger in her that comes out for just the smallest reason, with no explaination. I think the best thing is to get to the root of the problem. If her therapist isn't helping, she needs a new one, or she is feeding them full of B.S. and she doesn't want to fix her problem.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.