Hold on to that hope....you will need it for this roaler coaster ride...
I was also a "doer" in the marriage....I couldn't even believe that he could exist without me to make his coffee, meals, do laundry, etc....how wrong I was....and how unhealthy that all was for us both...things are different this time around...I am learning that I do not have to be in control of everything and it is OK if I let someone make a mistake!
