I would just remind you to think about one thing, would this help you get any closer to what you are trying to accomplish? Your main goal is to rebuild your marriage. This requires you to build trust with your h. As hard as it might be, you have to be the one who puts your "neck on the line" and have trust in him. Be patient! Like I've said before I would love to be in the place you are in with my w.
I too wouldn't want to be made a fool of, but with most things in life you have to take chances in order to succeed.
