Wow thanks Root - that is very positive feedback. From what I have read so far it does seem to work pretty fast, depending on the cooperation of the individuals of course. H at this point seems willing to cooperate.

We have another session with the C this Friday to discuss my perspective on how I see things overlapping with the A and then H goes by himself on Monday to start the CBT sessions. I am pretty excited about it all and to see if I can notice the improvements or not. It will be interesting for sure.

The C is going to combine the CBT sessions with our couple's sessions so he can get feedback on our situation but also monitor the CBT sessions with H (and ask me what I think at the same time). Of course, this is going to cost a fair chunk (going twice a week) but I am confident it is something that has to be done and if it helps and we can get our R back on track, I would put a second mortgage on the house - if need be.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)