I am 30 yo. H is almost 32. My kids are 13 yo son (his stepson) 7 yo daughter *ours* and 1 1/2 yo son in heaven *ours* We have been friends for 12 years, together for 9 years and H/W for 6 years this Thursday. We had a family meeting tonight when he came over, things got a little hairy but eventually thinned the thick air out and he even asked me to sit at the table w/ him when I gave him a plate of dinner. He is so confused, so lost. I don't know how to take him anymore. My son asked him if he was ever coming back home in our meeting and he said I dont know maybe and maybe not but right now no. UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGH
