I feel better today. I am back to my more logical self. Thank you all for your support. I think I will just make myself happy on Wed night, may be rent a funny movie, or something.

Hi, Lin,

"it will take time for H's feelings to go away for OW...I know it took my H a lot of time"
Thanks this really helps me to put perspective inline. I think h now is really working on coming back but his feelings/guilt are really in the way and I know he may switch to OW at anytime. The feelings for her is still there.

For the others who will be w/o a spouse this Valentine's Day, my hugs and kisses to you all. Those who have their spouses back, enjoy your day.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?