Wow, that took courage. Good for you, I think we sometimes feel like we have no control. They decide it's over and we are left asking what??? I think it's part of the process to show them we are still individuals and can and will make decisions without them. I think you left her thinking, that's for sure. My H and haven't even talked about the next step. I told him that we should just take it one step at a time. First he'll move out and after a few weeks we can sit and discuss where we are. I do not want to file for D. I would much rather file for legal separation and see where we are in 6 months. When he dropped the bomb, he was certain that divorce was the only answer. At least no whe hasn't pushed it, yet at least.
