LL: Relax... it is normal to lose patience time to time... but the most important is to know how to look back and note the difference and goals you both had gotten...!!... About both doing your own things, i think we tend to take this personal bc all the things we had lived...!!... and bc we didnt use to do that kind of things before all the bomb... Me and my h never used to et out alone... but now, i can enjoy my own get out with friends as he does... and beleive, since i go out and enjoy a lot, i bother less with his geting out, and feel more happy... Some weeks ago i invite my h to a concert... he doesnt like that artist (Lolita Flores)... and i love her...!!... so he said he didnt want to go... It seems he thought i will not go alone... but guess what...?!!... i went to that concert with a good friend... enjoy it a lot... and he was surprised bc my new actitude... in the past i would get angry and bother him bc he didnt want to go... But right now i accept his decission (even if that decission means not wanting to be with me), and try to enjoy my life...!!... Go ahead... try to relax... and try to think what reactions we have bc all we had lived in our R... sometimes we put bigger the things... There is no problem in both enjoying separate your own space... not if this is not the usual behavior... not if you both enjoy too other moments together...
