Quote: what kind of r is this going to be anyway...I go out with my friends...h goes out with his buddie...and we just hang out at home together??? I don't know
I wonder the same thing concerning my W. Except for activities with the kids, she (at present) has no interest in doing anything with me solo except for having OR talks where she can likely vent against me to her heart's content. What does the future hold? Who knows...
We both want a whole marriage - we deserve it and our spouses deserve it (regardless how we may feel at the moment). Although we are (and always will be) works in progress, we are complete people - we don't need our spouses to validate us. So I hope that you have a great time exploring on Saturday night with your friends and are able to have some fun. I'm comtemplating a visit out to Colorado with some other DBers at the beginning of February - looking more likely that I will go and have a great time with some great people.
