So, here we are! After our last 4-way meeting, our attys kind of chewed us out for not acting very collaboratively. There was too much positioning, lack of trust and disrespect flying around the room. It took a week for things to calm down, and Sunday we got into a discussion about all the parameters of the settlement, and got about 90% of them worked out. So when we go to our next meeting on Friday, we'd like to get to the point where they a can start to write it up.
It'a a bit weird getting to the end. I'm sadder than I guessed I'd be. It will be weird being out of her life, and becoming strangers over time. I don't like it at all.
But I will get to share the kids 50-50. My C said I need to decide what is really important to me and try to make that happen. It looks like it will. Yeah, I could probably get a better deal with some more hardball, but I'm just done.
So in a month or two it could be final. I'm so off balance, dating just seems like a fantasy. I need to do some of my own things for a while and see what happens.
built4speed My Saga "How others deal with the gifts you've given is not your decision, but theirs." - Richard Bach
