had a nice weekend, went to wedding with my mother and had fun with all the people from the old neighborhood...h called and left message on cell phone while I was in the church, thanking me for the dinner I had left in the fridge..I called back when we got to the hotel to let him know what room we were in...called again about 10pm to say hi (he was "threatend" by my being at the wedding without him, silly) h called at 2 am to say goodnight..he was out with a friend..had gone to a brewery for a few beers and then to a diner for breakfast thus the 2 am call...in the am h came to hotel to pick me up to go to football game...had a nice time at the game...then came home put son to bed and then played an interesting game of darts with h..(wont give details of the game but let's just say it was interesting)

h mentioned that today (monday) he had to blow out a few more sprinkler systems...I asked if he was the only one doing that or if he let some of his guys do it too...he said one of his guys did a few...(h didn't really get what I was asking) h had another employee take care of ow's house...i asked if ow's house will be serviced next year and he said probably not...i let him know that i know this is hard for him...but told him to think of it as alchohol...h understood..i let him know that though it is hard on him it is ten times harder on me...he understood taht is because i was "kept in the dark about the r" h hugged me and said sorry.
woke this am h made my tea...and gave me lots of big hugs when he left for work...
I let h know last night that I will not always bring this stuff up...he understands that...

so things are going well....of course i have questions that run through my head..some will get answers and some will not (they really are not all that important anyway) so now there are just two things I wait for...1-h to re-propose and 2- h to move home..
hopefully this wont take too long..
LL

thank you everyone for stopping by to check on me...hope you all had a good weekend too!!