Thanks, I don't know what to do about the move out, but I would be strong, and help him. Don't show pain, show him you can be strong enough and be the better person. He needs to know that you are not dependant on him, because he will see it as a sign of weakness.
A week ago I asked My W if she wanted to see other people, and she didn't take it to well. But, I think I showed her that I wasn't depending on her, and she can't control me by waiting around for her. She said we should file if I was going to see someone else, but I told her I wasn't unless she was, because it was only fair. I wasn't serious, but it kind of made a point. I don't really know but, I just go with the flow sometimes. Be strong.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.