You did a great job! On the weekend! I would bit the inside of my mouth whenever I thought I NEEDED to talk R. Sometimes I drew blood.
It isn't easy, but the next time will be a little easier.
Just remember when you do speak about R talk gently, your feelings are valid, and he doesn't know what he 'truely' is feeling, not yet. Wait for him to bring it up, until then go to the ladies room, or bite your lip.
Awesome job.
AND good luck!!!
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
