I never thought about it like that. It makes a lot of sense.
I am working on the hobbies thing. It so hard to leave the house but I know that I have to. It would be impossible for him to know that I doing REALLY good without him hearing about it. We don't share any custody issue and minimal financial stuff, so I think our talks will be speratic. It's a scary world but I'm glad I have a newtork of support on this website. I also set up couseling apt with the site. The first one went well. I have another scheduled for next week. I imagine his move on Saturday is going to be a real shock. For the last month, I have just been waiting for him to leave but now it's here and I know I'll miss his dearly.
