Just want to stop by and say hi, and ask an annoying question. I am sure your C asked you of this already.
What was the reason you are so in love with your H? After a year of his walking away and wavering back and forth, why would you still hang on? What are the moments when you most feel loved, not for now, but during better times of your M?
I am sure there are a lot more reasons besides for your kids.
The reason I asked this annoying question is that each day we wake up in the morning and make a choice: We still like to have our M back. Concerned friends and relatives always ask, why enduring such a pain. I am not trying to put them off or questioning my decision right now (I am sure at one point I will). But that did made me wonder the reasons why you would hang on, despite being tired of waiting.
Just a bad professional habit ... Hope the weekend is great so far. Chuck