thank you happy again - it didn't bring me down I always appreciate another POV. Hmm...lately it has been a bit of me "winning" and I am aware. Recenly H had another tatoo done, and it's not that nice BUT it makes him happy and it doesn't make me unhappy so I told him it's no big deal at all. I am the stronger one in this R, I am more dynamic and H does tend to "go with the flow" a lot - and not just with me, he does it in other aspects of his life too. I've asked him to not go with the flow with me if he really doesn't want to, but my skill will lie in not putting him into a position where he feels pressured.... Am taking this piecing thing quite slowly, I am happy to let the rest of this year continue to be a learning experience, but to be honest life is one of those! Happy_again thank you for reminding me that sometimes the best thing to say is...nothing (but I don't update when I say nothing...perhaps I should/pay more attention to that. Plenty of food for thought...)
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
