It is so great to hear from you. Yes we have both been at this so long. I am not really down about any of it. I have a lot going on. I have lots of plans that do not include h. He is afraid to make a decision and he does want me to do it for him but I have made my decisions for me. They have nothing to do with h. I don't need a d to move on. I have no intention of dating anyway. It seems a d does not bring closure any way. So if he does actually proceed with a d then I will cross that bridge when I come to it. There is no sense worrying about it now. I have more important things to attend to.
