Sure sounds like he is realizing something.I know the feeling wiht small kids, for all the years I was ome with ours, they were our life, h and I did not have a life. I resented if he wanted to do anything outside home, and I just did not think I should leave family at night to have my own fun. It was not anyhting intentional, we were young, not many friends. I am glad you have a life outside of home. Hope all keeps going good, but of course you are strong and know that it could change from day to day, and mood to mood.Have fun Sue