just a word of advice: practice some answers for when your friends say "throw her scrawney butt out...I wouldn't put up with that...etc...etc..." You're going to need them.
try:
I have chosen to try to give her time to come to her senses. These decisions aren't made overnight. Love is patient and kind. (not happy and light) Also to your friends:I know you love me so help me by respecting me and supporting me in my decision to give this time....blah blah blah

Doormats unite! I hope to reincarnate as a nice wood floor...

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby