LL: When my h ask for a second chance for us, he was desesperate in getting back to home... At first i wasnt sure if will be a good decission getting back home so fast after all that separation and suffer of 4 months before and without resolving many problems between us... But as time pass, as we get out but he was still at his rent apartment, i began thinking maybe he will get use to that type of life, he will get use to his alone apartment, his divorce buddies and will eventually not be interest in familly day by day common life... So, now i think some times maybe was better to wait a little more until he get back... because he was not completelly out of his crisis... but at the same time i can see him more joint to us, enjoying our awakes as a familly, and living what we want and the reason for we need to work: a joint marriage with great kids... and still now we havnt resolve all our problems, but we are working on that.... and you know what, problems arise being together, sharing a life, and this situation makes us work more on our M... Yes, in their turmoil they can be so please with the situation... living alone, not commiment, but having you at the same time... it seems they need to feel, to taste again what is a real familly, how is the day of a real joint familly, to beguin enjoying and sharing it again with you and resolving the problems between both... I dont know why your h hasnt take the decission of getting back, but maybe you can work on that... i dont know if you undrestand me because my poor english, but i feel the need to express my experience... maybe it can help...
