Hello. I read your post and don't blame you for wanting to give up. I feel the same way some times, but it has only been 3 months for us. It seems that he is having the best of both worlds and seems content with that right now. My advise to you is to start setting limits. Don't always be available to him when he wants or at his convience. Even if that means driving around town for a few hours when he thinks you should be home. Demand some respect in subtle ways. You are a humane being with feelings. Maybe tell yourself it is over and act as if you a getting on with your life to show him you mean business. Don't call the lawyer just yet. Try these things and see if he comes a little closer to committment.
