Oh I know. I can say all I am going to sent is a thank you and happy V-day. No I love you's or come back or other worthless line. I don't even think I will explain what i am thanking her for. I will mail it also. Another thing I am thinking about is the fact she wants to do that again. I do too. Like five times today and three tomorrow. I told her we had to do that again and she said my you're greedy but said yes we will just not in the next few days. I can say this has got me thinking but I don't know what to do yet. Obvioulsy I what her to initiate that one. Working on moving the focus back on me.