Quote: hard to do if part of his descision making involved "toying" with me by spending time with me and cuddling me in bed at night ( well the 5 of them anyway) all the while being 50% wanting to be here and 50% wanting to be with someone elses's wife...
I understand what you mean. My H does not live at home, he stays at OW's, on the "couch", when he is in on weekends. If he were to come home, it would have to be whole hearted, not half. It sounds like you're getting half from what you are saying.
I can see how you feel, that this is not good enough, I agree. He has to make a real commitment, just like when you first got married. It does feel like we are being toyed with. But again it boils down to it being our choice whether to stick with it or not.
Tina
M 14 years, tog 20. 3 kids D-13, S-11, S-9. Bomb dropped June 1/02, sep Aug 11, living with OW since Oct/02.
