LL,

Thanks for stopping by my thread. I haven't made any comments on your thoughts yet as I was trying to validate your feelings while looking at this DB business in a positive perspective. Unfortunately I haven't got any good ideas yet.

I guess one of the reasons I was hesitating making comments is that you have been endured for so long. It is indeed true that a person can only hang in so long, while patience is always the preach people are giving. So that would really depend on your mind and heart what the next step would be. Waiting and living your life happily without him while waiting for your H may also be a good decision.

So keep sharing with us your feelings. I am sure you will always make a wisest decision.

Thanks again for your numerous encouragements to my sitch. I am off to my "date" .

Chuck