you could get a job as a DB coach. I'm sure Dottie will say exactly what you just said.

Spouse sent another email saying she wasn't sure moving out was "what she wanted to do"...lordy! Sometimes you just want to scream "pull your head out and look to the future, where do you think you'll end up?"

I supsect I choose #1, especially since she said she "isn't sure" jeeze.

Do you ever want to tell friends you've joined a cult: "It's call divorce busters and that's why I don't throw him/her out on her butt..."

Meanwhile maybe I can have some pleasant conversation with OW when I pick daughter up from school: "hi, was it good for you this weekend? Has it occurred to you that she doesn't respect you either?" Perhaps someting subtle like that...Thanks Jules, I appreciate any response. I am really weary but the thought of telling daughter...ugggghhhhh. I can soldier on a while longer but NOT FOREVER

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby