Hi Grasshopper Its Ben and I have got back on this forum. The last time i posted in here was early Nov. I reached a point where I got a life and focused on me and my boys and let her go. Well I posted my update in infedelity and divorced but not done. I have a question for you its at the hend of my "why the denial" post. Having a hard time with this one. Your imput is always appreciated. Good to see things progressing with your sitch. God Bless and stand true.