HP: Although I feel more comfortable writing thoughts like that down and giving them to the recipient, I have found, over time, that it just doesn't work with her. She ends up focusing on the wrong thing, or taking something I wrote the wrong way. I think I need to talk to her face to face, precisely because I find it so difficult to do.
Mojo: I think that's a good and very accurate way of putting it. Yes, I am angry at her, but I have been much more angry at myself for my weakness over the years, and especially, recently.