I know my sitch is not exactly lile yours or Rachaels, but what kind of time frame do you think it should be to decide that you have had enough. I really ask this with all sincerity. If and when my h starts to say and act like he loves me and wants to work on our m, then I might be able to understand the time frame. Your h seems so unsure, is that wrong of him to feel that way, no, but if he can't totaly commit, then there are still unsolved problems on his part. If they really don't want the m, wouldn't they just leave once and for all?? I am just confused as to this process of getting everything fixed and back to a stable way of living. I long for all that you guys have, and yet you see me as having so much more.Oh if we could only wake up and it would all be different...Or maybe it is , but it is going so slow that we just can't see the progress!! Take care Sue
