I really feel for you! Please read my situation under "I need Help" imLin gives great advice. I feel lonely and my H is involved with OW...I am hurting myself to try to figure out what he is doing at every moment. He is not being overly involved with my kids (D4. D11 months) I am also his 2nd wife...seems like he has fallen into the same patterns he has with his xW.
My H left on 12/15/06 we have fought, I have begged, pleaded, cried and now I am really trying to just talk to him when I have to with no anomosity in my voice. I feel like my life is falling apart...
I am here to support you anyway I can.